Author: yabrielz

The honest truth. We all need to be strong.

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I’ve noticed that I’m not the only parent who feels like this. So, I’m going to speak on it. I will not let this particular agenda confuse my young child. I’m a grown woman and I don’t want to offend anyone. If I do offend you, I’m deeply sorry. My young child will not be taught about ‘transitioning’ from gender to gender because what even is that? Why do we think that since technology has been advanced, man can change our gender? Why are we telling our young children that if you are physically a male, you can transition into a physical female and all your dreams will come true. And when I say gender, I’m talking about whether you were born with a penis or a vagina. If you were born with a penis, you are a male. If you were born with a vagina, you are a female. If you were born without or with extra, you are rare. It’s simple. The world comes with so many complexities and differences in life, why focus on something the universe made simple. Male or female.  

In my opinion, what people are confusing gender with is temperament. There are feminine males and masculine females. That is nothing new. Now, I’m grown. I’ve been through life. I have nothing against grown people who make their own decisions about their life. What I do have something to say about is pushing this agenda on children. Why do want to put this idea of transitioning in the MINDS of our young? As young as toddlers? When I was growing up, I went through a tomboy phase. I dressed like a boy. I played hard like a boy and even hung out with the boys. There was no confusion in if I was a boy. I knew I was female, but I just liked “acting like a boy”. People would say “oh she’ll grow out of it” or “It’s just a phase”. No one was around telling me “Oh, you act like a boy why don’t you transition your gender to become a boy,” I would be more fucked up then I am now, if that were the case.  

Now, it is the case. And that is why I am writing this blog. We have to protect our children. Teach them to not be afraid of truth. We were given common sense for a reason. It is very powerful, collectively. Teach our children our values. Teach them how to make a concrete system for how they want to live. Parents introduce new life decisions in their child’s life. When the time is right the parent decides. Yes, my child is at an age where learning and books is a daily routine. No, I will not introduce him to the book “The Gay BCs” by ML. Webb. Why complicate something like the ABC’s? There is nothing sexual about the Alphabet. So why would I introduce it to my young child. Now I have to try to explain sexuality to my toddler. The main way to get a toddler to learn something is with repetition. So, I would have to continue to have this conversation with my toddler and introduce them to the idea of transitioning. Because…… I can’t find a good reason for it. So I’m not doing it.   

It seems like the times we are living in prioritize sexualizing our children over anything else. Like I said, I’m not here to offend anyone and if I do, I’m deeply sorry. But tell me you don’t care about our young, without telling me you don’t care about our young? I’ll go first. Clinical Care programs for Expansive Children and Adolescents. We are experimenting on our youth and calling it Affirmation. Dividing the young from the old is how I see it. Going further away from the truth and history as if it doesn’t exist. The Travistock child gender identity clinic came under wraps when the facility closed. The Centre claims “they will aim to help support young people under the age of 18 who are struggling with their gender identity and be linked to mental health care and GP services where relevant.” Pretty much what I got out of that statement is that the treatment they give is the affirming hormone therapy. This is where they give out puberty blocker drugs instead of exploratory therapy. To collect data. A clinical trial, on our children. Because of gender dysphoria? Let me repeat this. We are experimenting on our youth. Prioritizing creating puberty blockers drugs and not hesitating to give them to our children. Opening up more clinics. Selling lies and giving false hope. Mentally abusing our young. I almost feel like it’s a form of sexual abuse.  

I’ve seen articles about debates going on in elementary schools, sports activities for children, even Joe Biden’s administration wants to add amendments to the Title IV to get public funded schools to comply with their guidelines or risk losing their funding. Such a heavy push for our children to accept, what they push. They are targeting our young because they are our future. Literally. Each generation is programmed or conditioned in some type of way. In this day and age, one perception that is being pushed is a gender fluid society. You have to ask the question “Why?” Why all of a sudden are the lines between man and woman becoming blurred? Could it have anything to do with us everyday people being the modern-day peasants? Do we allow all our individual rights to get stripped away? Then ask the question “What?” What am I going to do about it?  

And that’s another reason I started to blog. I’m going to talk about everything. Have open honest truthful communication to whoever needs it. Spread the word. Talk to friends and family. Navigate our way through the communication and never stop speaking our truth. Protect our children. Keep the young minds free of bullshit and full of truth. And us parents, people taking care of children, have to step in to facilitate. Have open communication with our children. They are the next generation of the bloodline. What traditions and values do you want to see to continue from generation to generation? Is that a question we should even ask ourselves as parents? Is it even that deep? Yes. Yes, it is.  

You see your child as your child. As your precious baby. Your bloodline. The world sees just another baby, another toddler, another child. They want that child to follow in line with the rest. That is why we need to instill our values and beliefs in our children. And here’s the pro tip: Start when they are young! The media, government, elites all seem to understand the pro tip. I spend a lot of one-on-one time with my son. I mean face to face, we both looking at each other in the eyes like “what we are doing next?” Meaningful quality time. And that is when you instill those values and beliefs. Even when they are a baby. They may not understand then but if children hear or see it over and over again, they will catch on.  

I’m raising a son. That’s just what it is. When questions arise in awkward situations or if he comes to me with curiosity, I will answer them openly and honestly. My answers will be instilled in my beliefs because he’s, my child. There is no way my child is going to be led to believe you can “transition” to the opposite sex. If you are in a male body, there is nothing you can do to turn your body into a female body and vice versa. There is no surgery or no hormone, drugs that can undo what 9 months in the womb created. I am sorry, It is just not possible. When the time is right, my children will always be taught the truth. This is not to disrespect anyone. I have nothing against anyone. We have to come out of this illusion we are living in and come back to reality. The corruption of children’s mind at such a young age? Who said this type of therapy would be the best to handle a condition such as gender dysphoria? We can’t keep giving our control away.

Be a strong family, with a surprisingly healthy foundation

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My son is part of Generation Alpha, those born between 2010 – 2025. He falls in as a pandemic baby, year 2020. Who would have known during the year of the double twenties, we would be at the height of face masks, social distancing and lockdowns. And there I am, my first pregnancy, not what I had imagined but nevertheless, I’m thankful to have had a safe delivery and a healthy baby boy. Just to think, in ten years, I will have an adolescent. They say you have between 7 to13 years to teach a child and 5 years to guide and facilitate them to adulthood. Day by day, week by week, month by month, year by year and boom. You look up and this time, your baby isn’t a baby anymore. What did I teach him? What does he know about life? Is he a good person? Toddlers grow up to children, to adolescent, to adult. Whatever we do as parents, we have to start when the child is young. That is the pro tip: Start when your children are young. I got my son on a sleeping pattern, in his own bed, at a very young age. Now he takes one nap a day, goes to sleep around the same time every day and sleeps through the night. He’s a toddler, of course he gives me fuss when he doesn’t want to do it and that’s ok. I am strong enough to understand the mindset of a toddler. I’m wise enough to know that, when we do what we don’t want to do, especially when it’s something productive, it makes us mentally stronger. Instill values and beliefs while they are young. Make your children do the things that children complain about doing. They may cry and you may not want to hear that, but it will make them stronger. Condition your own child. If you don’t, the government will. If you stay ignorant, he school system will condition your child. If you are not giving your child attention, he media will snatch up your child’s attention and condition them. The fact that everyone is and will be a consumer will condition your child. And guess where children learn their consumer behavior from? By imitating parents and relevant models. 

I say all this to say, I stand for a strong family foundation. An organized family. A family that can have open honest meaningful communication. Foundation. The origin from Latin is fundare “to lay a base for.” So, when I say a family foundation, we are setting the system in place so future generations can keep the system functioning. We are creating the underlying basis and principles for our family. Teach our children how to ask questions and we, don’t be afraid to answer. Teach how to learn and know the dots and how to connect them. Teach our children our ideologies and show them how these values will help them. To do that, we have to heal. We have to inner stand how our decisions, the things we say and do, effects our children.  

We have to take a look at reality. Question what is going on for us and not just accept everything. Life goes from generation to generation, or your bloodline can die out. Are we going to continue to let perspective out live reality? Why is it that ultimately when we get home from a long day of work and errands, it’s the television that rush home to. Isolated in our homes watching everyone’s favorite tv show. Tv shows are used to Tel-a-vision. Our reality is what we live in. And we have to live in our truth as a people. What is really going on here on Earth, in America. Man and Woman. Law of the land or Maritime law. Home of the free, Land of the brave. Let’s be brave so we can be free. So, our children can lead behind us to protect our future generations and our earth.  

Us people raising children. Raise means to increase the amount, level, or strength of. We often confuse raising with maintaining children. Yet, there is so much brokenness among us. Knowing who you are and what you and your family stand for, having that strong family foundation, can conform a lot of lost souls. Bring values and morals. When people say “Man, life doesn’t have to be like this.” You’re right. It doesn’t. But millions more everyday people have to believe that life doesn’t have to be like this. Especially us parents. People raising children. Us average Jo’s have to realize the power is in the people. Communities can cooperate with each other and keep peace. We set the example.  

We want our children to do what we say, but we should all know by now, our children do what they see. Create a healthy relationship with our children. I say create a relationship because it is not automatically given. We have to put in work to keep a relationship functioning. Time and effort. Parents want so much from their children and often lack to reciprocate. Just because we keep a roof over our children’s head, food in their mouths, and clothes on their backs does not guarantee a strong bond with your child. We keep our family strong by laying a strong foundation for your child. And start when they are young!  

Even if you are a single parent. You are still a family. Be strong. Breaking generational curses will be hard. It will take a systems breakdown. Of ourselves. We have to ask ourselves those hard questions that could lead to nowhere. If we don’t answer them. We have to be curious. We have to want more. We have to come together on a common ground and cooperate with each other. We can’t be afraid. We are the people. And our actions will be examples for our children. We start with being strong for ourselves and with our family then extend it. Lead by example. Everything they distract us with, keep us from the life that was meant to be. We have purpose, we have meaning, we have soul. It starts with us but we can’t do it without each other.